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Hi, I am a straight (28M) and My (28F) girlfriend is bisexual, and she recently went overseas for her education. We plan to close the distance in 12-18 months. We have been in a serious committed monogamous relationship for 3 years and are exceptionally secure and healthy with each other.
She has always been very open about her attraction to women, and femininity in general, but she never got around to actualizing the feeling while we were together.
She yearns for physical touch and intimacy very much and she asked me if I would be okay, with her exploring intimacy and casual no strings flings with women, to fulfill the bodily needs, WHILE WE ARE APART, as well as discover this side of hers that she never got around to explore (Has never had an experience with a woman).
P.s: She did express she won't be unfair and upon mutual clear communication and understanding I can also casually explore women, as I am only attracted to them. But I myself do not have any interest. I can abstain myself until we meet and when we live in closer, accessible proximity.
I am at the core of it very secure about the feeling of her being with women in general, and openly supportive in her journey of her sexuality. Because we have clarified that our feelings, place in heart and dynamic will be untouched.
But the distance factor makes it challenging. It's a hard feeling to digest that your partner is having intimacy, even if with a woman, while you yearn for that experience from so far away.
What is a good way to go about this... I know she really trusts me at the core to be sharing this with me and communicating so clearly, I don't wish her to be limited but at the same time I don't want to suffer yearning and envying what a completely new person in their life is having as I sit in sorrow.
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