Me (25M) and gf (22f) have been dating for the past 3 years and the last one year has been ldr ( i moved abroad for further studies last year). We both love each other, respect and trust each other…we do have our little arguments and fights here and there, the frequency of which has increased over the past few months. One of our most frequent topic is her friendship with a guy, ( in context i know guy way before she knew him and he is trouble, not someone you would want people u care about to hangout with). She recently came out and said that they started talking and she would sometimes go talk to him when i am not available or when we are fighting…i have said my dislike about this situation and said it’s better if she stops this…1. I can smell trouble 2. I am uncomfortable about the fact she is hanging out with him….we fought multiple times on this. Recently, she came and said that they have stopped hanging out or talking and she is keeping a distance from him as she felt there’s something wrong about the way, he is around her ( all good i thought). Skip forward to today, she came and said that he shouted at her saying that she is avoiding him and keeping a distance from her…although she gave him befitting reply…she says she feels bad for it…and i am of the opinion just cut all ties with him afterall he is a nobody, but she disagrees and says let her deal with it, she can handle…but why wait for something to happened, when u can just avoid it completely, afterall he is a nobody, we had a fight about it. What you think guys, is my concern legit or am i just overthinking?! (P.s: sorry for the wrong grammar or typos, i tend to overthink and just write like that…english ain’t my first language 😅)