So I am from california and he is from edinburgh. We have been talking for 3 years and bc of health and personal reason havent been able to meet till now. We had originally agreed to 2 month but he said its actually unrealistic like what if we dont click, thats too long. And i agreed so we talked and agreed to 4 weeks. Now its a month or so away and he says he wants it to be 2 weeks and that he has cold feet about it being 4 weeks. The thing is bc I was aware it was 4 weeks I skipped a semester in college bc I wouldn’t be able to focus and delayed finding a new job bc no customer service job was gonna approve 4 weeks of vacation. So now Im extremely mad at him and hes very reluctant on doing 4 weeks.

//edit I am staying at his place

Am I being unreasonable or is he?