Layer 1: Tall, conventionally attractive and reasonably fit. Outwardly charming, witty conversationalist who has nerdy interests but gets along with all types. Single dad with 50/50 custody of one kid, a great career, financial well-being in order, homeowner, generally enthusiastic and optimistic. Great cook! Lover of dad jokes, silver fox with a great head of hair.

Layer 2: Rigorously ethical, politically progressive, I try to be compassionate for everyone but have little patience for dummies and bullies. I'm intellectually curious, an avid reader, amateur writer. Not a partier, only drink socially and nightclubs and festivals are my personal hell, but a quiet bar or bookstore or dinner with friends are the best! I'll make the plans and take care of the details; making reservations is one of my love languages! I'm passionate and kinky. I prefer a soft/sensual/daddy Dom role, but am happily switchy. High libido.

Layer 3: Introspective and empathetic, I pay attention to the feelings and well-being of the people around me, and strive to find deep connection and lasting loyalty. I'm slow to anger and quick to forgive, generous with my time and attention, but respond best to reciprocity. If I am deeply engaged in you and your well-being, that will thrive and deepen if you are with me as well.

I'm looking for someone who wants to peel back both of all of our layers together; a smartypants hottie with a sharp wit and a big heart. Who wants to share more than just hot, kinky sex. You're prepared to give as much as you get, and understand that the strongest, most lasting relationships evolve between two people committed to meeting each other's needs.

Your age doesn't matter, but your lifestyle does - I'm an early bird, I have responsibilities, I don't stay out late very often, but I do enjoy travel, in-town adventures and cultural events as much as quiet nights in. My freetime may be limited, but I communicate well and often, and will make the most of it!

Let's get deep, let's get real. Let's find passion and friendship and a lasting love that will go the distance through this cuffing season and many others to come.