I’m a kind, courteous, loving and affectionate, present and reliable, stable father, with an open mind and an open heart. This means I’m mature and emotionally available. I have a lot of responsibilities but I can make time for the right person.

I work in a professional, high-end industry alongside very educated and experienced people. On the surface I am an alpha male with a plan. But underneath I’m a simple man at heart with simple needs. And in the bedroom, I’m far from vanilla.

I’m hoping to meet someone who lacks pretension and has empathy for the little people. A kind, open minded, working-class gal who doesn’t wear a lot of makeup and cares about what she eats. Or maybe you work at a Whole Foods or you’re a manager at a restaurant, or something? Maybe you’re a teacher or an RN who loves her cat or dog and likes going to the beach on her days off. Or maybe you went back to such to finish your undergraduate degree. I don’t care what you do just have something interesting to talk about over dinner.

I can imagine you like hitting the local farmers market and shop at Costco once in a while. You love a good deal and know how to take care of yourself and others. I know I do. But you’re starved for touch and an emotional connection with a caring man who loves to cuddle.

Been married over 10 years to a woman from another culture, who’s also become very educated since we’ve been together. And we socialize with other highly educated and entrepreneurial individuals.

Over the last several years we’ve realized we’re very different and not happy. We even tried opening our marriage last year and now we’re all but separated.

Now that the kid is older I have plenty of free time to spend with someone worth investing in. I’ve already dated a bit and I’m not looking for a quickie, a casual, or a flash in the pan. I’m patient, in no rush, and I can feel what I want.

I want vulnerability, and emotional intimacy, I want to know your traumas and share mine. We all have them. I want us to feel safe and open with each other. I want us to laugh and cry together which will take time. But it’s worth it for me. I know what I want. My love language is touch and words of affirmation.

If any of this interests you, please DM and share a link to a favorite clip or funny bit. Just trying to avoid scammer, fakes, and bots, and I love to laugh as that’s easily the quickest way to my heart.