Passionate and affectionate IT professional, father of 2 and fitness enthusiast looking for a lover and a friend in this secret relationship to spend time with mostly in but sometimes out of the bedroom.

WHY: I miss the feeling of being connected physically and mentally… the passion and affection of an intimate relationship. I want to make someone feel wanted, needed, cared for (dare I say loved) and feel the same in return. I want us to smile when we think about each other, tingle when we see each other, messaging throughout the day, sometimes sending naughty pictures and vids but first getting to know each other to build trust and a special connection. Trust and communication is important.

SEX: Sometimes we’ll Have mind numbing, leg shaking, maybe kink filled sex that completely drains us (I am a kinky boy, but that isn’t a requirement from you). Other times make passionate love, falling deeply into each other (as cheesy as that might sound). I had a vasectomy w/ confirmed success so ideally once we build trust, we’ll stop using condoms and be fluid bonded. I also want to meet outside the bedroom (coffee, a park, daytime movie?, etc) where we can just spend some time with each other. Full on dating isn’t an option for me but I do want to see you out of the bedroom.

ME: I’m 47, 6ft, 200 lbs but fit and muscular. I’m not huge but I do have a fit, muscular physique. I’m mixed blk and wht with short, brown hair, brown eyes, a slender face and the beginning of a salt & pepper goatee. I’m kind, compassionate, caring and my love language is touch. I love dogs and cats (anything with fur and four legs really) have a career in IT, love all things SciFi and don’t drink or smoke but totally fine if you do. Whether you’re tall, short, fit or fluffy, I find beauty in all shapes and sizes although I do tend to gravitate to girls with a booty and I prefer someone liberal to center.

We’re here because we are all missing something that we need. Let’s see if we can find it in each other.