I am a recently widowed Queer (one year mark). Trying to fill a void and I’m currently looking for STRAIGHT male friends with benefits, but have very specific criteria.

I'm assigned male at birth (AMAB) but non-binary (x) hence my username. 39, 5’10, BLACK 240lbs (see my selfies). I’m interested in becoming friends with STRAIGHT men [only] I can give head to on a regular/on-going basis, with NO reciprocation… but I have some requirements: MINIMUM AGE IS 30. I will NOT meet with anyone younger (my preference is men 40 ). If you can travel, I can host.

Ideally, I’d love to be a side-companion for married or committed men in open relationships—men whose wives or girlfriends are aware they have other sexual partners.

Single guys are welcome as well, of course. If you’re going through a drought and just in need of head regularly until something else comes along, that’s perfectly fine. Whether you're attached or single, I like hypersexual men. If you find yourself waking up with morning wood every day and lying awake with blue balls every night, please give serious consideration to using me as a release valve. I guarantee discretion and privacy (I know everyone says they hate drama, but seriously, I hate drama). Since I don't enjoy reciprocation, I would enjoy having a cuddle buddy if that's acceptable.

In terms of physical attributes, I need a man with a noticeable BEER GUT/POT BELLY. If your stomach looks like a wrecking ball or is getting there, you’re my kinda guy. I also love beefcakes so if you've got big biceps I'd love to feel them up. Men with tats and men in suits thrill me as well. Himbos and guys who fall into the "overprotective" category would be welcome too. My celebrity crush is Justin Long so if you happen to be a look-a-like jump to the front of the line.

I'm absolutely obsessed with BWC, so the bigger the better. B(Asian)C too. Looking forward to meeting some of the biggest dicks in SoCal, though that’s not at all a dealbreaker. Check my profile to see if you match any of my other kinks too. Hit me up especially if you love being called "Daddy."

To reiterate: If you can travel [TO LA PUENTE], I can host. I’d like my place to be thought of as your man-cave (when we can arrange time): somewhere to relax, eat, watch tv, game, and get your dick sucked. My personal interests revolve around comic books and related media. DC Comics/Marvel/manga, television and feature animation, etc. I’m politically Left/liberal. I also love philosophical, religious, literary and entrepreneurial studies. Most of all, I just want to meet guys I can have fun with, so personality is key. I really do want to be considered a friend who also happens to suck you off.

If your dick got hard reading this, that's your signal you should message me right away. Let me know exactly why you're about to burst through your pants. I'd rather get a paragraph as opposed to a one-word "Hey/Hi". Please note I blocked anyone unwilling to share at least one picture of themselves.

Fully STD/STI screened and negative in all cases [ Last test date: MAR 4 2024 ]. Fully vaccinated: COVID booster/Monkeypox. Taking Truvada (PrEP) for prevention. Allergy alert: I have cats.