- Smart, loves to learn, needs constant mental stimulation
- Independent, sometimes strong-willed & stubborn
- Mind that rarely shuts off
- Loves creativity and original thinking
- Wonders if anyone can really understand you
Does this description fit you? And if so, does it also seem like the description of a good sub? For me, actually yes, it sounds perfect.
BDSM has the ability to help you develop a better understanding of yourself and find stablity and direction in your life, and it all starts with a Dom who understands and appreciates you. But finding that Dom for someone like you can be very challenging - you're just not the type of sub that most will have any experience with, and if they treat you like everyone else, they will just frustrate and demotivate you. What you need is special attention.
I've been working with women like you, intelligent women with high potential, for longer than many Redditors have been alive, and I've done it as a manager, a parent, a tutor, and naturally as a Dom. I know your state is more fragile than it looks - how easily you can switch to being confident and high achieving into one of self-doubt, falling into anxiety and depression. When that happens the motivation just drains away, but I know how to pull you back from that, and I always will because as my sub, you're my responsibility.
I've focused more on the teaching / mentorship in this post because its something that I do better than anyone else I believe, and also because I thought you would need a break from posts telling you about all the kinky sex men are promising you. Honestly, when I read some of these posts I wonder who exactly is servicing who.
Which is why sexually, all I will promise you in this post is that I will use you how and when I choose to, and whether you enjoy it or suffer through it makes no difference to me. And I won't feel guilty about it for a second because I know that women need attention - intense, intimate, seriously fucked-up attention. Especially women like you who need their brains shut off sometimes, and nothing does that quite like being a twisted degenerate's fucktoy. Well, if you're really curious, I have some writing in my profile.
It's time to wrap this up, so If you've read something in this post that you like and you think we'd get along, hit the chat button and let's find out. Or if you liked the post but don't think we're compatible, if you wouldn't mind hitting the upvote button on the way out, I'd appreciate that. Thank you very much for reading.
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