One of my friends gave me some advice for my R4R posts - that instead of being so sexually explicit, I should just be myself. "But that is me being myself," I told her. "Every single time we talk I tell you that I'm going to abduct you and force breed you." And she said, "Yeah you do, but you also give me a lot of good advice, so now I'm giving you some." And I thought that was sweet actually, and what's the point of having smart friends if you don't listen to them.

Speaking of smart friends, I read somewhere that in dating, women are evaluated on their appearance, and men on their personality & behavior. But I guess I'm the exception, because I'm definitely a man who evaluates women on personality & behavior and as you can probably imagine, some women are really happy with that, and many others fucking hate it.

Whether that's good news for you depends upon whether you're someone with intelligence, independence, creativity, a sense of humor, talent, and a good attitude. If you are, then we'll get along great.

On the other hand, if all you have is a pretty face and slim hips and a bunch of interests and opinions that you think people are supposed to have, then you didn't make the cut, and this post isn't for you. And yes, those people know exactly who they are and this does work to get rid of almost all of them.

I also know that a 50 year old guy in a Reddit R4R sub looks like an old guy trying to get young pussy, and fine, that's a fair criticism, just in keep in mind that some of us older guys were on the Internet before you and even helped build it. But also most 50 year olds aren't on Reddit, they're on Facebook or LinkedIn or Nextdoor or whatever, but I'm here because Redditors are my people.

A better question is whether and why a young woman would go for a fifty year old guy, and I can tell you that they do and exactly why that is - it's because we don't have anxiety. No depression, no self-doubt, no low self-esteem, no panic attacks, etc. A lot of younger women love that and need that confidence and self-assurance and experience in their lives, and personally I'm someone who really enjoys helping younger people figure themselves out and improve themselves. I'm not a therapist or anything, just someone who has taught & managed people and achieved his own goals.

Sexually, I'm a fucking degenerate, but I know you are too. I know how women are and what you all fantasize about and that you should feel nothing but guilt and shame and humiliation every minute of the day. I'd punish you by putting you over my lap and spanking and fingering you, but I also know you'd enjoy that, so a better punishment would be taping your wrists and ankles, vibrating you to the brink of orgasm, smacking your pussy with a belt, and making you apologize for being such a dirty, desperate slut while I hold you down and push my cum into your whore mouth or slut pussy and tell you it's what you deserve. I'd go on, but like I said I don't want to get too explicit.

Did I mention that I'm a writer? I write some fun & fucked up stuff as you can guess- well, it's for women who need attention. And I'm a lot of fun to have in your DMs, especially around bedtime.

Now I'm going to wrap this up, but also help you through your anxiety as I promised. See that chat button? It's already making you nervous, right? But I don't need you to be perfect, I just need you to try your best and give yourself credit for stepping out of your comfort zone. Think about the best possible outcome - you find someone who inspires you and appreciates you and can give you the kind of crazy attention that you need and the highs that go with it. Less anxious, right? Now go ahead and click Chat and look forward to meeting you.