My last FWB unfortunately moved long distance so looking again for someone local. 

Me: 6’,  Asian/African American, extremely fit with excellent hygiene and very well endowed. I highly value making sure I’m in great shape physically, mentally, and spiritually. Quite kink-friendly and open-minded with a healthy habit of adventurous exploration in and out of the bedroom. 

You: sane, self-aware, attractive, intelligent, and in good shape. 

Overall I’m very happy with my life and everything I’ve got going though…it’s tough finding others in a similar situation. Very nice career in tech and building a business on the side while investing in a very active and adventurous lifestyle. Looking for someone that matches my level of ambition and is also looking for a regular, kinky FWB arrangement that’s mutually beneficial to both of our cravings. 

I’m not interested in sleeping around or actively dating multiple people. Ideally, we’d meet consistently as our schedules allow and we’d take care of each other - great food, even better sex, and conversations/adventures that stimulate our appetite for growth - so we can recharge to conquer our busy lives. 

If this sounds like your dream, great! The tricky part of all of this is meeting my criteria:

1. Sexual chemistry is obviously important, but equally imperative is that you aren't emotionally unstable, a raging narcissist, or otherwise bad person. I don’t have any baggage and I’m extremely chill with a very secure attachment style so I hope you are too. While we don't have to have the same interests I need to like talking to you with clothes on, so baseline you have to be self-aware, have empathy, and respect.
2. Appearance wise, I like reasonably fit, healthy women of all backgrounds. Body type isn’t as important to me as you maintaining an active lifestyle. I can definitely tell whether someone works out regularly or not. Ideally you’re between 25-35 y/o. I like a hot nerd: the more passionate/articulate you are about your interests, the more attractive I'll likely find you. Drive is so sexy.
3. Please be genuinely unattached. This is important for mental and sexual safety reasons. I’m looking for something safe and completely drama free.
4. Those comfortable with doms and the lifestyle, step to the front of the line. I’m a true pleasure Dom but can also switch depending on your fantasies - all kinds of fun to be had, but that conversation is for the folks that meet criteria 1-3.

If this aligns with you, please send me a message. I get a lot of “Hey” and “Interested” DMs but if you're really interested, please put at least a little effort in making the message memorable. A photo does a lot but so does a well-thought out reply. I'm particularly interested in hearing more about you and also any questions you have about me.