I’m 38, white, 185 average dad bod, educated with a masters degree and professional job. Overall I’m a very caring and loyal individual. I’m clean, Ddf and expect the same. Some interests of mine include travel, going for walks (especially with pretty scenery, ice cream, golf, tennis, etc. Penguins are my favorite animal and I like a variety of tv shows including: Succession, White Lotus, South Park, Ted Lasso, and many more.

I’m looking to meet someone as I’m going through a rough patch in life and seeking fun, distraction, and intimacy. I’m currently in a dead marriage that we recently opened as a result of cheating and I’m processing through the emotions. I want to meet new people as it’s time to do something for me. I’m longing to feel connection as well as need to please others. I’ve been told I have a great tongue for going down and decently endowed.

What I am looking to get out of this is I want to forget about my life for a while. I want an escape. When I am with you, you are the only thing I care about. I am hoping I can get find someone who feels the same way. Ideal person is someone that is caring, compassionate, slightly kinky, and a nice person. While I’m located in the Valley, I’m open to drive as well.

I’m not sure how much time I can dedicate to a relationship while maintaining my family life but I do want this person to be a priority for me. I prefer that we care about each other and aren't just looking for someone to use every once in a while. I'm not single so I'm not trying to play the field. I just want to find one person who can add a little something to my life and hopefully I can add something positive to your life. In no way am I looking for an exit affair or am I trying to replace my wife. I love my family but need something for me.