A little about me: 1 - 43 White Male, married 17 years, in a dead bedroom situation (absolutely zero affection in our marriage for 7 years). Not looking to change my situation, but looking to fill in the gaps. 2 - Dad to college-aged son, Fur dad to two fur babies (13 y /o German Sheppard, 7 y/o lab). I love animals! 3 - Small Business Owner, retired military, full time corporate trainer (travels throughout southeast) 4 - Educated, well read, open minded, emotionally intelligent, mature, highly introverted (with strong social skills). I am very middle of the road politically (if that is important to you). 5 - Deeply kind, loving, affectionate, thoughtful, attentive, and sincere towards others 6 - Top Love Languages - Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service (in that order) 7 - Well managed mental health - I have mild PTSD, depression, and anxiety, but they are all well managed. You would never know I have any of these unless I openly shared this information. I share this to say, "we all have stuff", and I'm very supportive emotionally 8 - I want to be your biggest fan. I want to make you feel special, appreciated, respected, desired, wanted, needed, and craved. 9 - I like to talk daily. I fully understand family and life come first. But I make a point of saying good morning, checking in every day, and making sure you know you're important to me (even on busy days, when traveling, etc.) I tend to share a lot of pictures (more selfies, pictures from my day, my dogs, etc.). I feel it just helps us feel closer. 10 - I am tall (6'2) with a thick dad body. I am healthy and active, but also LOVE food! I have salt and pepper blonde hair, neatly trimmed/short facial hair, big blue eyes, 1 tattoo on my upper back, and 1 well hidden body piercing.

As for what I'm hoping to find... 1 - Someone that is also married, ideally in a dead bedroom situation, or lacking general affection & intimacy 2 - Someone that is not looking to change their situation, but also misses that spark, butterflies, and excitement of having someone special. 3 - A good head on your shoulders, a big heart, and a dirty mind (when appropriate). 4 - Kindness is unbelievably sexy to me! Please be kind, thoughtful, and sweet. 5 - Please be open minded, emotionally intelligent, and mature 6 - Someone that wants to be my biggest fan! Someone that is open to developing feelings/emotions. 7 - Someone that wants to talk every day, or at least most days! 8 - Love languages that match mine would be fantastic! Affection (physically and verbally) are HUGE for me. 9 - I am attracted to all body types, ethnicities. Please be 30 in age. Most men look at a woman and focus on the things they do not like. When I see people, i focus on the things that make them beautiful! We all have beauty :)

10 - If you are an animal lover - huge bonus! I think that's a good start... Your move :)