Hi there. In an effort to not just word wall you, I'll try to keep this a little more organized.

First, a bit about me: I'm a functional adult but occasionally a hot mess express. I'll put my Crocs in sport mode and handle my shit, but I'll be anxious about it the whole time. I am a parent, employee, and graduate student making a career change. Grad school is proving harder than expected, and unfortunately sport mode has no bearing on how well I'm handling that, but it's being handled nonetheless.

I enjoy history, writing, reading, documentaries, and honestly I can enjoy most anything in good company. I'm nearly 6ft tall, plus sized, white with brown hair and eyes and I have a handful of tattoos (I'm slowly collecting more). I like to think I'm funny, but I do get told I'm "unapproachable" by people until they actually get to know me. I guess it's the RBF.

People are more than their kinks, but given the dynamic I am looking for, I will leave you with a little word bank to see if you think we'd be compatible. I'm into: power exchange, toys, ownership, training, stretching, tasks, overstimulation, intimacy, grinding, freeuse, rough, begging, light bondage, nipple/breast play, performing oral/rimming.

Limit wise: I am not into anyone under 21, age play/regression, anything illegal, anything toilet related, or anything that causes lasting harm. I have limited experience with brats, but I'm open.

Now on to the more interesting part of all of this: you.

There's no physical requirement you have to meet, because I don't really have a type. I'm attracted to femininity, not a height or weight or skin tone. I have limited experience with trans women, but again, I'm open.

You're a functional adult, the occasional hot mess as well because none of us have it totally together. You can and do make decisions but you'd just rather not. You don't want to have to think about what to wear, what to have for dinner, when and how to please yourself. You're someone who thrives on praise, attention, and performing acts of service. You may have been told previously that you're "too needy" or "too much", but that's just because you haven't met me yet because clingy and needy are right up my ally. I want you to need me. I welcome earning the right to be needed by you.

The idea of being owned by someone excites you. The idea of someone being unable to keep their hands off of you is something you enjoy. You thrive in an environment with clear expectations. You would enjoy a dynamic in which your body isn't only yours anymore, but ours, and part of my responsibility to it is to deliver so much pleasure that it's overwhelming. You think you'd like to be told how well you're doing when you're shaking, and crying, and deciding whether or not you can take more (spoiler: you can, and you will). You like to follow directions and you like to be doted on, cared for, and touched. You'd enjoy going through your day knowing that you are, indeed, all mine, and that as soon as I get home to you I'm going to show you exactly how much I appreciate having you all to myself.

You're comfortable with yourself, feelings, emotions, and body. You can explain your thoughts (even if you do need a little help from me getting through them and articulating them). You know what your limits are and can tell them to me, confidently. You're comfortable telling people "no". I am extremely consent and comfort oriented, and I pride myself on being able make you feel comfortable enough to have these conversations with me. You're comfortable enough with your body to let me worship it, openly and often.

I wouldn't consider myself particularly sadistic, but I do find myself to be a bit strict. My ego depends, heavily, on my ability to please you and because of that, denial is a mutual punishment. I don't have a standard set of "rules", they're developed over time with your best interest in mind, so I don't take lightly to them not being followed.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, please feel free to reach out. I know it can seem intimidating to initiate contact so if it helps, tell me: your name(nickname is fine), age, where you're from(timezone is fine), and a deal breaker you have for a dominant partner.