I’m serious, I’m driven, but where to find chemistry? [edit: This belongs on r4r but I’ve been given a reprimand for posting there too much in one day 😅]

I seriously only like the following things: writing (seriously, for fun, poetry, erotica (it’s a whole rabbit hole), poetry, (mine isn’t that bad), and romance (I hear men are more romantic than women so I’ll try not to be too embarrassed about that one 😳), reading, self improvement (not in the motivational poster sense, no offence, but we’ve all surely been there at one point in some sense or the other…), truth, reason, pleasure, logic, the good, humanity, the world at large, other people (esp when I’m not feeling so alone and crazy because I’ve just lost someone dear to me to a dumb fight and a transfiguration spell whereby he became a rooster instead of a gorgeous being capable of being with /me/). Learning, exercise like running, and finding my next needle in a haystack. Are you one of my “the ones?” The rest of the list is on standby but I’d like to tell you about it, whoever you are. :)

I’m upfront. I don’t like beating around the bush. Please don’t act like you didn’t read this entire post when we talk. You’re allowed to remain clueless about nothing mentioned here ;), no exceptions. So if I say I’m single, don’t act surprised like it’s the first time we’re talking, and as if you didn’t find me on r4r.

I’m basically a genius, but I may have lost all my genius works.

These things always happen fast for me or not at all, so let’s see if today’s a lucky day.

What’s something you’re thinking about lately, or want to talk to me about? I’m a little fried. Let’s have a FaceTime call tonight, and chat about everything we want to talk about?

Let’s see where things take us.

Attraction is very important to me. Your sense of presence above all, your intelligence second, your personality perhaps next, and that way your beauty can actually shine. It never quite works the other way around, not in a truly alive universe.

You either know already or you don’t! Don’t hesitate to just write whatever comes to you. Timing matters too. I think… it’s a pet theory of mine about romance.

Here’s a rather unflattering but recent photo of me. Your move! Promise I’m still the sexiest girl you’ll meet though. hair flip

https://imgur.com/a/T8XpI1S