You know what's uncommon? When you can be alone with someone and it doesn't seem weird when you are both silent. You can kind of coexist with another person.

A while ago I got into The Sims 4. I am not a big fan of video games but this game is so relaxing and I really enjoy it. And don't worry about instant replies. We all live in a busy world and sometimes we don't have the time or energy to reply right away. I like the "you've got mail" kinda vibe. (I miss the days of good romances).

I myself am more of a listener, I love being concise. And as of hobbies I love plants, painting furniture, or making gifs for my Tumblr blog. It is really hard to find something that I actually like but these hobbies stick with me for a really long time.

I also have a degree in mechanical engineering, but I don't have a passion for it. For a long time I liked working with metal, but over the years it started to feel cold because at the end of the day it's just a piece of metal. And I crave emotions, even if I don't like to show them.

I love reserved people. I know one should not judge others but partygoers sadly can be superficial at times.

Even though I have managed to get along well with folks like that, it does not change the fact that I feel empty around them.

I want someone who will listen to me, actually listen because they care, someone who will respect me and my boundaries. I am a very emotional person once I am comfortable with someone, so I need to feel that my emotions are validated for that person. I don't like people pitying me like a child. I don't need you to solve my problems for me; I just need you to be by my side when I am fixing them myself. And you need to be straightforward and direct. Like if you want to say something, just say it. I love it when people point out my wrongdoings.

P.S. i am a fem/sub.. just saying it in advance, maybe it is a red flag for you