ok here's the thing for me as an FN - typically our "compliment" (so to speak) is that "supermodels are FN, many actresses are FN, FNs are amazonian, etc", in the same way that a SC's compliment may be that's she's "very elegant, a princess, etc." However, for me, the "supermodel beauty" isn't really what I go for? It doesn't appeal to me as much. I love that I can have puffy hair, and lace dusters and everything, and I wear those all the time. The thing is, I realized that the term "flamboyant natural" does suit me, but not in the "hippie" sort of way, but in a more "slightly chaotic/wild, powerful/regal" sort of way.

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just some thoughts inspired by some of the appreciation type posts i've been seeing recently.