It’s important to keep in mind that the base for every female kibbe type is femininity, in kibbe we just call it masculine to fit with the whole thing, but Kibbe masculinity/yang is very very different from actual masculinity.

As a trans women I throughly researched and analysed the differences between men and women and I found that kibbe masculinity is very different from actual masculinity. They really don’t line up at all, for example one of the stronger masculine signifiers is a pronounced brow ridge and while some women may have one it won’t make them look masculine, because it’s always about the whole picture and Kibbe typing doesn’t even involve brow ridges and it also doesn’t really involve other masculine features, like say a very edgy jaw edge (?).

What you have to remember is that you are the kibbe system, you can be as much of an example for your type as any beauty standard complying celebrity.

Because in the end femininity will always be defined by how women look, so since you’re a woman and you look a certain way, you are femininity. Photoshopped instagram models can’t compare, beauty standards can’t compare, all the misogyny and body dysmorphia in the world isn’t as real and feminine as you are.

I guess we could call this authentic femininity. I really hope this comes of as supportive I don’t know if it’s offensive, also I hope this isn’t against the rules, but I hate that when it comes to femininity social media always tries to “one up” everything so that the new “feminine” isn’t even real anymore.