So after some (a lot of) time I finally accepted that I am not a yin type just because I have a small waist. I know - mind blowing, but true.

I didn’t plan on changing my style though. I just dropped the waist emphasis and other soft/frilly/shiny stuff and leaned more into straight, minimalist and structured and even though I still kept most of my clothes and didn’t really change the aesthetic too much….

I suddenly became a fashion icon. People go out of their way to say they love my outfits and how I accessorise and put things together.

It also helped me with self love and body positivity. There is that one actress that shares my type and even though we probably don’t look much alike I JUST FEEL SUCH A TWIN FLAME VIBE FROM HER.

So yeah… if I was to give you guys one advice, I would say - don’t try to force yourself into a certain ID just because it’s the one you find the most appealing, because it really won’t make you someone you’re not. AND YOU COULD BE SUCH A DELICIOUS SNACK THAT YOU ALREADY ARE I MEAN LOOK AT YOURSELF!!!!