Hello fellow degenerates…

So mine is a question of options….

A little background:

Been married 10 years, major driver of marriage was sexual runway, but long story short have been in a dead bedroom for the last 5 years.

We have been playing around w chastity for the last 6 months, and there are a number of positives:

1. my satisfaction, need for attention
2. feeds her ego (and my fantasy)
3. submissive to her energy

That said, there seems to be one major negative, she enjoys dick more than oral. Chastity is having the desired effect in regards to sexual tension and prioritising her pleasure. But..: She wants dick. Above orgasms, more than some intimate engagement.

So I am sittin here, caged. She is looking for side action. And we are searching for key pathways…

Any advice?