My girl and I have been wanting to explore the world of 3somes and couple swaps and even tho we post on here and stuff we never have it happen because we honestly are confused. But we’re moving into a bigger place and definitely are looking to broaden our sex life and open up. So as far as needing advice goes we just are confused on if we do an MFM or FMF 3some how do you begin it when the other person arrives? Also during an MFM how do the guys know when they are about to finish so they can finish together rather than one finish early and have to wait. And during an FMF how do you keep it spicy and keep both girls excited and not bored or dry up. We’re definitely wanting to explore 3somes before couples but might go with a couple first so we can both experience what it’s like to sleep with another person in front of each other. Anyone who does this regularly please give us some good advice and answers to the questions and honestly anything else you feel we should know.