This is in Hutchinson Ks

Open to all ladies, couples and select single males. All males, single or in a couple, bring a new unused wrapped gift (suggestion it vibrates) to the party. We will start with a meet and great. Then one female will start picking a gift, the next female could steal or pick a different gift and so on. The first person will have last chance to steal. Once all gifts are opened the play party can begin. If your lucky guys the lady might let you use the gift with her/them. Be respectful and as always No means No. Byob but if it's spirits use in moderation will not tolerate drunkenness meet and great will start at 530 to 630 ish. Then gift exchange. Party starts after that. Santa will be there but only till 9ish. So sit on his lap tell him how naughty you have been or better show him and see if santa has a gift for you.

Can also find on fet.