I'm looking for someone in a similar situation to me. Married with children. Spouse does not want sex, Affection, kissing, or even to hold hands. Therapy, counseling, talking, and everything else has been attempted with no resolution. As much as I'd like to end things, I cannot at this time due to everything I'd loose and more important, less contact with my three children. My children are most important to me. Nothing will change that.

I'm looking for someone in a similar situation or someonewho is looking for short term. Someone who wants to connect occasionally and someone who is affectionate. Someone who will get lost in the moment with me. Going to the gym with me would be a huge plus but understand if you don't want to be seen in public.

About me; 34 year old male White Brown hair 6.0 tall / 205 pounds Fit body type Attractive College educated Regularly exercise Full head of hair and all my teeth Smoke and drug free disease free and very good hygiene Very compassionate and affectionate Respectful Huge into giving backrubs and pleasing Funny

Looking for a female only. Age, body type, etc doesn't matter. You just have to be clean, disease free, discreet, and longing for compassion as I am.

Also, I've had questions on why I don't just try to resolve the issue with my spouse and reconnect. Also, had questions on why I think she is this way. I think it all boils down to her really not loving me as a person and therefore she won't connect. I've given her everything she asks, forgave her and moved passed very shitty things she has done to me, etc. I've made mistakes along the way and did everything to correct those. You know when someone looks at you and doesn't respect you or love you. I see it and sadly I ignored all the warning signs early on and put myself in this situation. I think she hasn't left me for the kids and the life style I can provide. It's really the only thing that makes sense. Her exes were those types of guys that are opposites of me. They are guys that are not goal oriented, dickish, and party lifestyle. I know it's not a hormonal issue on her part. When she was having affairs she was very sexual I later found out.

I've come to realize it's just me as a person and I just have to accept that. I've talked about divorce and she is not interested in that. As shitty as it is, I put myself in this situation and I will have to live with it. I want what is best for my kids and I want to be in my kids life.

I understand this may sound ridiculous but the loneliness wears down on a person and after years of dealing with it, I'm ready to act on it and seek connection/passion elsewhere. Message me if you are interested and my situation can fill what you are looking for.

Last, if you are a dude thinking we can do sexual things together I'm telling you right now it will never ever happen. Do not even waste your time messaging me. I don't swing that way, and, I never will. I'm not judging your life style or choices, nor do I judge you, however, it is not for me so do not even try.

Thank you.