I am toying with the idea of starting a Kansas City Make Out Club subreddit. There are a ton of places to look for sex, but I want to make a group that is focused on cuddling, making out, kissing, massages, heavy petting, etc. Basically, a physical encounter without the pressure of sex. I was trying to think of the correct baseball metaphor to use, but there isn't a standardized agreement on what the bases mean. For example, some people include oral sex as a base before penetrative sex (a home run, about the only consistent metric), and other people put oral in with sex as a home run. What do people think? Would there be any interest in this group? Suggestions on an upper limit? Manual stimulation, oral? I know there is a KC Blow Job club that supposedly caters to all genders, but I've only seen people with penises looking to get said penis sucked. I haven't seen any women looking to get their pussy eaten. Anyway, I'm leaning toward maxing out at manual (handjob / fingering). Obviously everyone involved will be consenting adults and they can go as far as they want, but I want to keep this potential group focused on less intense activities. I welcome all constructive feedback.