I’m just your average midwestern dad looking for that midwestern mom. I’ve been married 15yrs, we do have kids. For the most part I have a happy life. There are voids though. Like any other good spouse/parent, I grit my teeth and move through it. I work like a horse…I’d love to actually be ridden like one lol. I haven’t had that or even seen her completely naked in 10yrs. We do have sex, it’s just blah and not intimate. I’m just going through the motions to satisfy my wife. To be honest…I hate that I feel like this.

I am 5’8” 155lbs 9” (if that matters) bearded tattoos blue collar kind of guy. I am fairly in shape, would definitely appreciate you being confident in yourself.

Like I said, this is my first time but I have thought it out. I’m to the point I can do so with a clear conscience and get neither of us in trouble. I only want our lives to improve from this. For example and like I mentioned earlier, I haven’t seen a completely naked women in front of me in 10 yrs. I would be thrilled to try simple mutual masturbation! That alone excites me lol

I hope to hear from you and get our blood flowing again