I apologize for the title. I know it sounds a little sketchy. Just got bored and started reading through some old messages when I started to notice a trend. So I apologize if anything sounds choppy, just typing as I think.

Why do some people assume that when you say not being into something means you’re unwilling to do something in regards to kinks?

I’m someone who is into a lot. Let’s just say it’d be easier for me to create a list of what I’m not into. I’ve met/spoken with a lot of people, and when it comes to talking about kinks… the minute that one doesn’t align… I get ghosted. For example, when a guy is into ball licking or a woman is into being rimmed…. Both I would say im not interested in…. But both I would be more than willing to do for someone that is. The only things I wouldn’t do for someone is break any hard limits i have. I’d never expect someone to do something that they wouldn’t want. I guess when I say im not interested. It means that I would not bring be the one to bring it up? Maybe im being too literal. Would love to hear some opinions :)