Hey there! I am a single 43 year old pre-op masc presenting Transgender dude. I am currently on T so there will be noticeable on-going changes. I am 5’5”, blue eyes, and shaved brown hair. I am fat, but I am actively losing weight. I have lost 169 pounds so far! I have several tattoos and piercings, which includes my septum, 2 lip rings, and my tongue.

I am laid back, open minded, and non-judgmental. I am a very blunt, honest, and upfront person. I tend to have a bit of a morbid sense of humor at times. I do love to joke around and have a good time, but I can be serious when appropriate. I am into the macabre and horror. I do have a 23 year old kid who recently had to move back in with me.

I don’t really have any preferences when it comes to looks. What I find attractive are qualities such as intelligence, kindness, humility, honesty, and just overall being a good person.

I do prefer to date someone who is clingy. I am a very intimate and romantic type of person and I love giving attention to and doing things for the person I am with. I am an affectionate and touchy-feely type. Meaning I like to put my arms around my partner, hold hands, put my hand on their leg, caress their arm, etc. I am looking for long term, but am open to whatever.

I have recently started exploring my sexual side and figuring out what I really enjoy, which includes a lot of kink/BDSM. I have quite a list of different things I am into or want to try-especially going more towards the sadistic, hardcore, or depraved side. I also tend to have a high sex drive.

I always respect boundaries and restrictions, and I expect you to as well. I don’t tolerate discrimination or dis-respectfulness of any kind. Everything will be communicated and approved before doing anything. You need to be able to openly communicate about desires, fantasies, concerns, questions, whatever is on your mind, etc. After care is also very important.

I am not looking to meet after the first chat. I would like to get to know one another a bit, and if/when we feel comfortable, then we can meet. I live just north of Kansas City/Gladstone in Smithville, MO. I am looking for local only.

Must be 420 friendly. I am Pansexual, however I am not looking for cis men.