The average post on here is something along the lines of "36m4f 5'10 180 let's have fun"

There is nothing to distinguish your post from any other on here, other than (maybe) a fairly unsexy close up picture of your dick. Why would anyone choose YOUR post out of that? The only way those posts are going to get you lucky is if it was an absolute fluke.

So post something with actual substance, that conveys a bit of your personality and isn't just about getting laid. You're still not that likely to get a bite, but it will at least have you standing out from your peers. If you post a picture, I recommend it not be a close up of your dick. No matter how big it is, it's just not that appealing.

Literally 1 karma and just a list of stats for your whole post history is incredibly unappealing and unlikely to get you even a second glance.

Lastly, whining about how the sub is filled with scammers and escorts and how "real women never respond" is not going to help your case

Hope this helps!