I am the man in this situation, so it's probably going to seem like I am single guy trying to get laid. I am not, there is a good chance nothing is going to happen here.

About me:
Basically, super average 5'8 normal looking guy, technically overweight with a good bit of muscle, not obese. Average in shape dad bod I guess. Working on getting really fit, but that a long way off. Let's just say sexually I am experienced and know what I am doing. I love giving oral, even more than sex, I don't care too much for receiving either. 0 diseases ever, tested, still doesn't trust you and will use a condom.

Why the hell am I dating a 21 year old?!

About her:
Blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'5, athletic body (hovering around border of underweight) ex-stripper, probably way too attractive for me. Honestly, she was into me for my money, then became absolutely obsessed with me. I am her 2nd boyfriend ever, she has been tested and 0 diseases ever.

Why the post?

Here is where things get confusing and why this is just a long text post without pictures (Which I could provide to someone serious, but neither of us would ever do nudes online). We kind of don't know what to do for fun? She is trying to stay sober, I can keep myself entertained, but she's struggling a bit. When she was drinking (bad time, don't suggest testing that one) we would go to strip clubs, everything was sexual, and for some reason she really wanted me to have a 2nd girlfriend who she could be friends with and hang out with. I think she is very bi curious, even has tried to date women, makes comments all the time about how attractive they are but when it comes time for something to happen, she gets scared and won't do it.

While trying to figure out what to do together, we talked about the previous things like going to strip clubs, but there is too much pressure to drink. When I am single I basically go on all the dating apps, flirt a lot, meet new people (All women... some sexual some not). I said if she wants to try things with a woman, that the thrill of perusing someone new, and the flirting and getting to know them is exciting, we could basically try to find her the hottest girl we could find? She was not against that, but just said she probably couldn't be with a woman. I have done MFMF and MFF before, but never MMF, I don't love the idea, but I would be open to it. So I asked if she would want to find a third guy for MMF? However, she instantly shot that one down, she does not want to be with two guys at the same time. After watching some TV together, she pretty randomly says "Well, you could find another woman and fuck her, I am just not sure if I could".

So maybe you, woman who is reading this, can decrypt whatever she actually means by all that. She is really into DD;LG, and she wants me to fully control her, do anything I want to her, tell her how to dress, control her weight, use her however I want, she wants to exist to please me. I think she must have a VERY serious degradation fetish. She definitely seems bi-curious, and I am very enthusiastically encouraging it. But with her saying I could have a 2nd girlfriend before, and her saying I could fuck another woman (She said she doesn't want to watch). I say I wouldn't want to exclude her, and I am not sure I would be comfortable without her involved, but she insists its okay? I think this might just be part of that degradation fetish?

Feel free to message me and chat or ask more. To any guys just wanting to fuck my GF, sorry she won't do it. Any guys who want to pretend to be a woman for nudes of me and/or girlfriend, again not going to happen. But maybe there is some lurking unicorn who is really unsure if they want to do this? That would be perfect.