In answer to the question, "Are you still looking for a guy?" No. I am not. My fantasy has been fulfilled and I am no longer taking applications.

Having said that, there have been some very nice gentlemen who have reached out and I really appreciate the men who took the time to read my post and reply with manners and class.

Now, in case you're wondering, the date night thing went extremely well. The gentleman my husband and I chose was absolutely perfect and it could not have gone any better! I honestly think that this guy should teach classes on how to be the perfect male for an MFM.

Here is what he did right:

1. Actually read my post and asked questions about it.

2. Sincerely listened when I gave him the answers.

3. Complimented me in so many ways and made me feel great!

4. Had plenty of conversation with my husband beforehand.

5. Respected my husband and I's relationship.

6. Told my husband what he liked about me. (My husband LOVES it when other men are attracted to me, so this was huge!)

7. Showed up on time.

8. Dressed nicely, had great hygiene.

9. Communicated with us about boundaries, likes/dislikes ahead of time.

   10.Was an absolute blast in the bedroom. Completely rocked my world and gave me something to think about for days.

10. Made sure I came over and over again.

11. Took turns with my hubby and never made him feel left out. They worked great together as a team.

    1. Was a fantastic kisser!
    2. Reserved plenty of time for us and didn't rush off the minute we were done.

I would like to thank the reddit gods for this amazing opportunity. I hope you all get what you're looking for here.