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I've been thinking about this fantasy I have (but have never acted on) and don't know if it's a "thing" in the community at all. Would love to know if there are people who are into this as well.
I guess it would be kind of like a GFE/BFE situation, but it's a love kink. Like I meet up with someone I don't know at all and start making out and having sex, each of us looking in each other's eyes and telling each other "I love you". And we hook up, and we have sex, and I'm whispering in her ear how much I love her, and she's looking in my eyes telling me she loves me. And then we orgasm and once it's done we're not pretending we're in love.
I know that in actual loving relationships, that intimacy heightens the moment, obviously. So it's weird to think of it as a "kink". But in the context of only sex (i.e. this "love kink" doesn't work so much with a stranger on a dinner date, as "I love you; so what do you do for work?" just doesn't make sense), and with someone you don't know very well. It seems like the kind of thing that would vanish when you know someone well enough to start to believe in the truth or falseness of telling them "I love you". But while it's obviously not real, the fantasy could be exhilarating.
Anyway a note is that I feel more excitement about the idea of telling a hot naked stranger that I love her, don't feel I'd necessarily get off so much on being told "I love you"... maybe that says something about my own psychology lol.
So... may be emotionally dangerous but possibly hot and interesting?
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