Having a kink/kinks when your partner is super vanilla sucks.

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How do you all cope with kinks you may have and explaining them to a partner long term or short term without feeling either very judged or your wasting your breath.

I find it not only difficult having a kink and not being able to talk about it or feel/engage in it. Like I’m struggling here guys.

I mean my partner has never been like eww no it’s just like they take it on and then in their heads maybe dismiss it?

Also what kinks do you have, like what are you interests? Are they scenarios you can engage in by yourself?

Struggling!

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