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I donāt do meet ups. When kids are back in school I may reintroduce fan coffee dates, but those are a service I charge for, not just meeting up with random people everyday of the week for shits and giggles lol. Some people understand it and others had their egos wounded about it so weāll see. I havenāt decided yet. But I donāt do any sort of sexual meet ups with people.
Ok Iām glad you understand! I donāt know that I can make it happen before kids are back in school but Iād be happy to see you when they are, which is near the end of August!
So this is usually where people get butt hurt, but I charge for my time for the coffee date, I donāt just ask someone to buy me a coffee. The guys who get all wounded about it say things like āyou think I canāt get a date?! Why would I pay for a date?! Iād buy you a coffee but Iām not paying for a date!ā When in reality thatās not what itās about, nor what Iām implying by asking to be compensated for my time. In this work, I have a bajillion people offer to take me to coffee, and if I went out to coffee everyday or even once a week with someone random just because they wanted to meet me, thatās a lot of time I could be utilizing to better my future and pay my bills. Aināt nobody else paying the bills for me. So if Iām stepping away from my work day to chit chat, yeah I want to be compensated for my time. Every single person who understands and respects that has been happy that they were able to meet me, and thought it was a fun experience with a genuine person. Now, if someone says āoh, yeah Iād do coffee but Iām not paying for your time. I get it but Iām just not doing thatā. Okay, no worries man. I am not hurt about it. So anyway, thatās the jist on coffee dates. If I decide to do them again when school starts then Iāll make a post on my profile about it.
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Doesnāt need to be totally sexual but Iāve done collabs in the past of just getting together for fun sexy photos or doing fun activities while naked
Thank you! You are too! I sent you a chat message. Reddit wonāt let me see it now that Iām trying to double check lol but I think we should collab!