So I was thinking of the times women seemed to approach me, they seemed alternative in their expression of their feminine nature. I am a little chubby (but working on it), wear a beard, decent height, but nothing special , but I notice the girls that seems to show interest seem to be Tom boys, have their heads shaved, maybe a few tattoos (not that in and of itself is alt), are studying psychology, etc. . I do have autism, so I do wonder if part of it is neurodiversity or maybe my shadow. I tend to present as kinda conservative except maybe drinking at the bar. I am just trying to think more about the connections between these encounters.