Wife and I are very much in love. Married for 20 years. Have one child of 10. 15 years ago my dad died. My wife said that my mother could come live with us. My mother is a very blunt person. Grown up since 15 years of age on her own, has a master's degree. She is 72. My wife, 50, is also blunt, but very honest. She is loving and caring and wants to make everyone happy. She has a degree in social work so that she can help people. (I'm 45 years old). 10 years ago we all moved from Canada to Europe to live here. I got a well paying job and basically support the family and I love it. I love my family with passion. We bought a small house. But my mother has been getting on my wife's nerves lately and there is no way out for my wife. There have been many instances of severe argument in which I get involved too. I always take my wife's side because in my heart I know she is right. If she wasn't, I would be taking my mom's side. I'm also an honest person. My wife can't take it anymore. She is losing her cool and is getting depressed. My mother is there ALL the time, in her space, in her privacy, everywhere. She doesn't do that on purpose but because we have a small house, it feels like it's choking my wife. We both know at this stage kicking out my mother isn't the right thing to do. The 4 of us have only each other. No other family (at least within the next 2000km!) So my wife and I argue all the time lately. We are fighting and we know why. What must I do? I want to help my wife be happy.