Don’t share it’s rude, get your own JN.

This is my very own egg donor - Jnmumster.

Last time I saw her in person my eldest was 6 months old, he was born very early and was lucky to survive. I gave her chance of course she threw a fit- she called the police they laughed at her. I went nc. I have callled her once to let her know her sister/my aunt was passing.

My amazing jygrandpa is being made palliative today. I live 7 hrs away. Sis and I and my youngest are driving up soon. My youngest that she doesn’t even know exists (big yay for families helping hold strong boundaries) she doesn’t even know I’m divorced soon to remarry and I have 3 kiddos. It’s her dad who is Passing.

I have ptsd from her. I actually do hate her. I’m sure as hell am ready to drag her outside and quietly throw down if she starts her dramatics.

I’m stronger mentally than I ever have been. I still don’t want to see her. She won’t be allowed within 10 meters of my baby. My sis will body block her. I want her to have time with her dad sure. But not with me, not with my baby, not with my sis who is still healing from the damage she only just realised the egg donor caused. I’m breaking out my “woe is me victim” bingo cards in case she shows up for our impromptu family catch up. If she says something on the bingo card you have to shout “shot” and everyone takes a shot.. if you get a full line you shout “bingo “ and chug your drink. (Don’t do this you will get alcohol poisoning lol) wish me luck. This wench has done some truely awful things.