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Sooo 2 of us in my family are immune compromised, so my in laws haven’t seen us since Covid started. I had a baby about a month after the initial lockdowns started whom they hadn’t met, so now where it’s summer and numbers are down, my husband said they could come but we would stick to outdoor things (MIL isn’t vaccinated and they haven’t been particularly careful at all)

They complained a bit but came around. We’ve done most dining in outdoor restaurants, but they keep wanting to share drinks/food. Even before Covid, my older kid has a lot of allergies so we don’t usually like other people sharing food/drinks with him in case they’re eating something he’s allergic to, etc but my in laws keep trying to sneak their food and drinks to them - even if my kid is eating or drinking the exact same thing. Also, what’s the point of doing outdoor things for Covid if they’re literally going to be trying to share everything they eat or drink 🙃

And like many in this group, my husband refuses to enforce the boundary so it’s on me. Every single time even if he’s right there he claims he “didn’t hear it” or “didn’t see it”.

Thank you all for all your feedback!