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This is the woman who ignored me while I was sexually abused for years by her husband. The person who spent all her time babying my brother and giving him everything he wanted, while ignoring me.
My extended family can't stand my narcissistic stepdad. He's been manipulating and controlling my mom for the past 30 years. She's now fragile and unstable herself. And even if you put that aside, she and I never got along.
But I have to deal with all of this before I plan a wedding and get married, otherwise it's going to eat me alive. I don't want her at the wedding. I don't want a relationship with her. I just want an apology. That's all I've been asking for years.
Things might go from bad to worse tomorrow if my pedophile stepdad shows up. I can't handle that. My fiance and grandparents are amazing and helpful but I'm still freaking out.
This is the story in a nutshell, my post history goes into more detail about it. This has been eating me alive for years, and the last few days I've been so stressed over it. I started binge eating again because of it.
I have to ask one question. Are you prepared for denial, no apology or anything else in that area? Or she can give you I’m sorry that you feel that way type of apology.
What do you need to do for your own mental health is completely dropped the rope at all shape or form. We’re thinking about her, talking about her anything relating to her you need to try and stop. It is tough thinking and having to do it. I’ve been there on dropping the rope.
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