Well I am half way through a 16 day unwanted visit from boyfriends mom. I’ve posted before about how uncomfortable I am and some of her behaviors but honestly just needed to rant some more. I am starting to think I might have a SO problem as well. Today I am working from home and well…she’s in a weird mood. She’s been just sitting in her pajamas watching videos on her phone and giggling. SO is off work today and went to the grocery store without asking her to go, then came home and has been playing video games with his headphones on in the same room while she continues to watch videos on her phone and giggle. They haven’t been talking. So when I get off work she will not shut up because nobody has talked to her all day and I’ll have to act surprised about the same stories she tells me once again because I am nice and cannot simply ignore her like SO does.

I told him it’s ridiculous behavior and he just looked at me like what do you mean?! And he didn’t understand why I told him he needs to actually spend time with her.

I am so mentally burned out from this extensive visit. I miss having some time in the house to myself and being able to wear my nightie in the house without any judgment. I miss watching tv at night, anything I choose…without her blasting her phone even louder until I eventually just turn off the tv (last night).

And im soo tired of the constant guilt trips about how much she doesn’t want to go back to her other sons house (where she lives!) and her telling me what to say or not say to my SO. I’m just so very done.