So MIL came, it went fine, she behaved. On her way out she tried to hug me while I was changing baby’s diaper, and I pulled away under the guise of grabbing a new diaper. She left very quickly and my fiancé said she was crying. She thankfully hasn’t texted me since, but has texted my fiancé. Nothing crazy, nothing rude. I don’t know if i’ll have her in my home again just because of the anxiety it caused me🤷🏼‍♀️

Now onto the fun part! This weekend my mom came and kicked us out like she does once a month😂 We decided to go to Orlando and stay at the Ritz. Fiancé let it slip to his dad that we were going and his dad decided he would come. Okay, annoying but not an issue, his dad is alright. What we didn’t know, was he brought his ex wife, my fiancés ex stepmom. We haven’t spoken to her in 3 years, my fiancé has never liked her and she has never cared for him much either. We ignored for the sake of not starting drama. Last night, I was getting off the elevator to meet my fiancé at the bar of the restaurant, and the dad and stepmom were getting on. The dad says hi to me, I politely say hi back, but don’t stop to talk since she was there. I sit at the bar and I’m telling my fiancé what happened and she comes up to us rambling about how we must not remember her because we don’t say hi, we’re disrespecting her, how can we talk to her kids but not her and calling fiancé a POS. He’s telling her to calm down, we’re in a Michelin star restaurant. It was embarrassing. The bartender offers to call security and I told her yes, please. The stepmom then walks away cursing us😂

A couple minutes after that, fiancé goes to look for his dad to make sure everything is okay(they had their 8 and 4 year old with them too and fiancé was worried). He walks out to the pool area where hundreds of people are watching a fireworks show. Stepmom is standing there screaming at the dad in front of their children and all of those people. The stepmom starts getting handsy with the dad, so fiancé goes to split them up and is trying to calm her down. She starts grabbing his shirt and his chains, knocked his glasses off of his shirt and said she should break them…all in front of the kids.

Fiancé tells her that we’re in a nice place and to stop acting like trash, so she backhands him across the face. IN FRONT OF HER KIDS. His little brother starts crying because his mother just hit his brother. He goes over to comfort the brother, telling her to calm down because she’s scaring her kid. She runs over and slaps his hand out of the way, nearly hitting the brother in the face. She grabs the brother by the arm and pulls him away from fiancé. She took both kids, one of his dad’s phone, and the dad’s car and drives all the way home. Me, fiancé and fiancés dad all end up going to dinner. She spam calls him the entire time, threatening us and him. The dad opens up about how she hits him all the time and the kids sometimes, and screams at the kids.

After dinner, fiancé and I have a conversation about whether or not to press charges. I told him that he should, not only for himself but also to help his dad get custody. Then this morning we start getting texts from her, she was using the dad’s phone that she took before she left. Threatening not only us, but our son too(she’s never met him, nor will she ever). The dad calls and says that she used his phone to Zelle herself 7 bands from his account🤦🏼‍♀️So we called the non emergency sheriff line and they came to the hotel and took his statement. The cameras didn’t catch her hitting him unfortunately, so it’s up to the AG to press charges. Because she did all of this in front of her kids, the sheriff had to call CPS. Not sure when they’ll drop by her house, but hopefully soon. I told his father that he needs to leave her and take her to court for custody, and that if he doesn’t then we will. Fiancé and I are fully prepared to look after his siblings if that’s what it comes down to. I hope the dad does leave her like he says he will, but I don’t know. They’re already divorced, but still together. Just a mess of a relationship.

I told fiancé I’m never going anywhere with the dad again, and that he needs to keep his family away from me. Too much drama, I feel like we’re living in a telenovela or something🤦🏼‍♀️ Anyway, that was my weekend.