I still have her blocked, she will never come unblocked.

She sent an email, about 3 weeks ago now. We did not respond, as my fiancé thought it would anger her even more. He thinks she may try and take us to court for visitation.

Last night, she sent him a text. Same old story. I’m letting my fiancé take the front seat when it comes to her. He is smart and he knows exactly how to handle her. He would never in a million years allow her around if he didn’t think it was the best course of action when dealing with her.

I hired a nanny almost a month ago. She comes in every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. She sits and entertains LO during his wake windows and helps me with housework, errands and pet care while he’s napping. Since I don’t drive, she drives our truck and we go on day trips with LO together. She’s a very sweet girl and things have been going well.

Fiancé says she is to be with me at all times when his mother comes, as our witness. Fiancé and I are putting very strict rules and boundaries on her visit. These include:

-if he cries he is to be passed back to me until he calms down

-cannot be alone for even 1 second

-no kissing his face or hands

-do not show up if sick

-no pictures

-regardless of the time she gets here, she leaves at 6pm. If she comes before 2pm trying to get more time with him, she will have to do something else until 2pm.

This is the beginning of attempting to win back trust. If she can’t play by our rules and understand we are the parents and she is not, then too bad.

This is what I have so far, that fiancé agrees with. Anything else based on my past posts that I may be forgetting?

I do not wish to interact, and if I absolutely have to i’d like to contribute the bare minimum. How should I respond when she ultimately tries to start conversation with me? How should I act? Is not talking to her much considered petty?

Anything else i’m forgetting?

Will obviously update again after her visit on the 28th.

Thanks in advance