I blocked her number, haven’t spoken to her since my last post, not planning to either. A couple of weeks ago, I spoke to her mother who asked about when she and her boyfriend could come meet the baby, my beef isn’t with her although I’m disappointed in her sticking up for her daughter, but ultimately understand. That’s her kid, you know? I think deep down, she knows her daughter is in the wrong but she has too much pride to ever admit it. Whatever.

2 nights ago, my fiancé receives a call. His grandma, he is reluctant to answer. I tell him that he should, because we should at least give her 1 chance to be around the baby since she hasn’t met him yet. Unfortunately, the call wasn’t about meeting the baby like I thought it would be about. It was her telling him that he’s punished his mom enough, it was time to speak to her again and let her see her grandson😂 Okay, fine, but nothing she could say would make either of us change our minds. The mother sent her own mother to fight her battle for her😭 After a big long message in which fiancé called his mother immature, unreliable, too emotional to think rationally and volatile, she is SCARED to reach out to him. In that same message fiance told her again she needed to apologize to me, in which she stated “sorry that i tried to help your son.” She then said she was the one who should have made a big deal about the rash but she didn’t because she didn’t want to hurt my feelings. Every word she says just digs a bigger hole, and after that was when I decided to finally block her. It’s been peaceful, I’ve been happier, she will never ever come unblocked. I feel zero sympathy or love for her anymore. Back to the grandma: She states that MIL is depressed, doesn’t want to work or eat and it’s cruel what he’s doing to her. She says that she knows it’s me that is the one who is “making him” not talk to his mom. If any of you knew us in real life, you’d know I can’t make this man do ANYTHING. She says that she can’t believe how fake I was all of these years, that I never loved his mom. He laughed at her and said “if you think Haley doesn’t love my mom, then you must think I despise her.” He told her that I’m the one that has been facilitating relationships between him and his family for years and that he wouldn’t have even answered her call just now if i didn’t tell him that he probably should😬 He told her he didn’t want to hear anymore, that he loves her and loves his mom, but his mom isn’t a safe person and obviously neither is she if she is going to call to justify what her daughter did to his son and talk shit about his son’s mother🥹 She cried and he hung up.

But WOW, love this man. Hate his crazy family. So far his dad’s side have been much much better family to have in my son’s life anyway. They’re currently visiting their home country and are bringing baby back souvenirs and his aunt asked if I wanted a new Torito(Peruvian bull statue of protection and good luck)because she saw that mine was missing a horn when she visited🥹

Anyway TD;LR Grandma crazy too