This happened a few weeks ago, and granted I am heavier than I have ever been before. However, I have a 2 year old and a 9 WEEK old who is basically stuck to me. She asked me this in front of some other distant family members, and I think my jaw actually hit the floor. I gestured dramically to the child in my arms and said "err when??" I'm so angry at the audacity. I wouldn't mind but have been eating clean after cutting out all the junk in April. I still have to address portion size and exercise but my daughter is less than 3 months old. Give me a chance ffs!

To add insult to injury she then proceeded to 'tease' my husband about his weight. I love my husband's cuddley dad bod, though he also intends to make changes. This woman lives overseas (thankfully) so we don't see her too often, but she always leaves such a bad taste behind when we do.

In case anyone remembers this is the woman who bought flights for the whole family, one way, to visit her this summer even though we said we didn't want to. Anyway return flights are €280 now so looks like none of us are going. What a shame/s