Tonight, I was talking to my friend, ( male but platonic) via whatsapp voice note

I mentioned how, I'm really beginning to make peace with not talking to my mother.

Quick recap for context

•mother and h.s came to apartment 2 months ago to the day today

•said they wanted to clean to help me, I'm blind from birth but mother has always had a weird obsession with cleaning*

•They came, saw, complained about everything, moved things around, complained about my cat, etc....

•in the end, it turned into me being ungrateful.... etc. as usual

So, I was saying to my friend, how I'm making peace with not speaking now, and he was saying, that there's no sense in cutting them out completely

I am scared that eventually someone from the family ( I don't know who ) but someone, will get angry at me, tell me I'm a horible person for setting boundaries, ( not talking ) etc

Now what friend said has made me anxious

What I don't get is, he knows the history of everything that's gone on, so why say something like this?

Am I in the wrong? Now I don't know what to think

TL:DR I put distance between myself and my mother after she came into my home and complained about everything, friend says no sense in going nc, is he right?