Last week I sent him a text using an app to spoof a phone number, asking him if next Tuesday (tomorrow) would be a good time for him, as my SO and I have been very busy of late.

He didn't respond to me at all... until today, the literal day before hand. It's been 8 days, which seems odd to me since he seemed SO concerned with reestablishing a relationship. Only now, he tells me that my grandmother has the day off tomorrow and can have lunch with us. "Where do you want us to meet you and what time?" Uh... dude, I told you that it must be YOU only.

I'm trying not to have a panic attack as I compose a message telling him NO, she cannot come.

Text telling him the rules

Text from last week/today

I don't know if I'm just being paranoid or if I should have reason to be as suspicious as I am. I'm worried that this is being done on purpose.