Moderators
Subreddit Rules
18+ only
•Anyone found to be under 18 will have their content removed and permanently banned
Proper post formatting
All posts must follow r/r4r format.
(ex: 25 [M4R] Looking for friend/hookup)
If your personal ad doesn't follow these rules it will be removed
No advertising
•No spam/self promotion.
•No linking to personal blogs, paid content, subscription sites, or other self-promotion
•No advertising outside chat groups (kik, skype, discord, whatsapp, etc)
•No personal contact information (kik, skype, email, phone, snap etc)
•Financial exchange of any kind is strictly prohibited.
Usernames/Personal Info
We do not allow any personal information to be posted to the subreddit. Including but not limited to phone numbers, email addresses, usernames of any kind for any service (PSN, XBOX, kik, whatsapp, whatever messaging APP is being used currently), or external profiles or surveys. We advise you to share these via PM with those you are comfortable with.
NSFW content must be tagged
If you know your post contains NSFW or suggestive language (you know when it does), then please tag it as such. If you attach photos, then mark them with the spoiler tag.
This rule is a courtesy rule, because although the subreddit is 18+, we are not an explicit subreddit (like r/gonewild, etc). If you require assistance, please ask the mods
Posting on behalf of others
You may not post on behalf of others without contacting the mods first with proof you have permission to do this. No, you can't just say "I have their permission". Please contact the mods for clarification of this rule if you have questions regarding it.
No fake accounts or pic collectors
While you can use a throwaway account, don't pretend to be someone you're not and don't attempt to solicit/collect pics. If you're suspected of being a pic collector, a mod will ask you to provide some level of verification. Failure to verify will result in a ban.
Be sound to each other
•No name calling or personal attacks
•No homophobia, sexism, racism, bigotry of any kind.
•No explicit or implied threats.
•No doxxing/outing/name-dropping.
•No shaming people for their kinks (or lack thereof).
•No callout posts, naming and shaming people (Reddit users or otherwise).
No dick pics.
If they want to see it they'll ask
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