Discovered this sub recently, don't really see too many people posting so I'll help getting the ball rolling

22yo latino, I love to read, a bit of writing (although I suck at that), not really a gym rat but am going to lose weight, gone down from 350 to 150 in about 2 years give or take, although my mexican/Latino mix and lived every single stereotype of how much we party, I'm more introverted than extroverted, prefer to stay in and watch a movie if it's an option, but open to partying, I don't smoke or drink, not my thing, tried it more than a handful of times for a few stuff, but just couldn't ever get into it, sorry, but I'm friendly if u do any, it seriously doesn't bother me if u do it in front of me, I've met one person who was for some reason bothered by do it near me, but I promise 100% it's cool, I'm also somewhat a movie buff, if I remember to do it, I tend to watch new movies as often as possible, I'm shit with names but I'll remember even the tiniest details of you randomly, and if you couldn't tell before, I love to talk

I'm on here for 1 thing that's basically a whole bunch of other stuff, I'm looking for a casual relationship, someone who doesn't wanna jump right into things like living together, naming future kids and whatnot, but I also don't want a nsa fwb, or casual hookup, I've learned a few things about myself recently and turns out I really love to know the other person before our first time, so I'm looking for someone who is patient and willing to take things slow and see what it can turn into

1 red flag/baggage that I bring to the table that I think you should know above all else, I'm completely obsessed with this one girl, she's the only one on my mind for the past 3 years straight, there's been a handful of women between then and now that peaked my interest, but compared to my obsession, their flames just didn't seem to compare enough. The only upside to this (If that's what you can even call it) I cant chase this girl, not yet, many many many many things stopping me which I can later explain, but for now, it's not something I have control over and I'm contempt with that, I'm not looking to fan out that flame of hers that she holds on me, but I also can't be wasting my time for too long, who knows, maybe I'll be 50 tomorrow and wondered why I didn't branch out, so I'm looking to meet others and seeing where it goes, who knows, maybe you'll outdo her by a billion times???

1 green flag I believe I can proudly bloat is that I'm 100% honest with my feelings, I'm upfront, if I feel a certain way, I'll tell you about it, I've seen time and time again people bottling in their feelings tok much and it explodes into their relationships, but time and time again, I've seen the opposite if u open up, so with everyone I'm truthful with my feelings, I've grown into the habit of just accepting we feel different ways for everything and that's ok. I see this as a green flag because most guys I know don't see this as a masculine thing to do, to share emotions, but as I see it, I don't see it masculine to keep in emotions either, just no point,

Anyhoo, I've rambled on long enough, but I figured to more upfront the better as an introduction, that's me, yes I'm looking in hemet/sj are, but I'm expanding my look out as far as maybe fallbrook? If you know the distance from here to there. Just imagine a circle around the ie like that