This is my first post about something I found out a

around 5 months ago. During a conversation about sex, my wife (32f) told me( 33m) that she had kissed another women. I initially thought she was talking about prior to us being married. However, after talking with her it was during our marriage. I didn’t know how I felt about this initially. The more I thought about it the more angry I got. I cant help but feeling like she cheated on me. I know in the realm infidelity this is fairly minor. But to me it’s a big deal. When I asked her more details about the event; she explained that she had been drinking with her girlfriends at one of their houses. She told me that she was fairly drunk and that it was a dare. She told me that she had sat on the other females lap and kissed for about 30 seconds while the other female felt her breasts. She told me this during a conversation about sex, thinking that I would be turned on. But it has had quite the opposite effect. I’m trying to deal with this and will feel okay for about a week and then get super angry all over again. I feel likes this is even more complicated because we have a 3 year old and another one on the way. It’s complicated to me because I know if we didn’t have kids I would have wanted for us to get a divorce. Am I overacting about this???