Guys I need to feel better. My soon to be ex lied in the most horrifying egregious ways, and I just need to feel like I'm not the only crazy one 😭

Ok, I'll start:

My husband would go to his weekly SA meeting, stay for fellowship afterwards and then come tell me, in great detail, how powerful the meeting was, the shares that he'd connected with, the men he'd talked to, how accepted he felt by the group... he and i would end the night with serenity prayer, and a sobriety check in.

I would tell him how proud I was of him, how happy I was that he was making all these friends, and that I appreciated how hard he was working to recover for our family.

He wasnt going to SA meetings. He was actually going to meet a woman he met on Reddit.

I wouldn't ask for this info...i was just like, hey, how was your night? He went out of his way to tell me these elaborate lies and use them to connect with me