For the past while I’ve been talking to a guy online about stuff porn. We’d talk about what pornstars we like and what celebrities turn us on.

He eventually admitted that he wants to hook up, and he said tomorrow he’s going to provide me with a copy of a clean STI test result.

However, not long after he admitted that he was married and he was turned on from cheating. He even sent me her nudes in an attempt to turn me on as well. He admitted that he cheats regularly, and if she found out she’d be devastated.

I know what he looks like from pics he’s sent me. If the test result tomorrow has his name on it, should I try and look him up online and see if I can contact his wife and tell her what he’s been doing?

If the test doesn’t have his name, how can I try and get it off him?

And finally, should I try and tell her? Something like this can be soul destroying, and while the truth is important, do you think it would be better if she didn’t know?

UPDATE: I managed to find her tik tok. They were engaged and she found out he was cheating on her, and so they split up.

He’s been lying to people online saying that they’re still together and sharing her nudes. I’m gonna try and message her on tik tok. The only problem is that only friends of hers can message. If you have any suggestions on what I can do, please say.