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Serious question : is it okay to match the energy in the dating apps?
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What I mentioned in the title. I have matched with a few women who are really good at conversations, and you can actually feel the authenticity behind their messages. We have been on some dates as well, which have been super fun.

That being said, most women, from what I have seen, are really bad at holding up their end of the conversation. I get the idea that they are usually inundated with messages from multiple guys at once, so it's difficult to keep up - but here's something that I never understood :

In the event the girls right swipe, and from what I have seen, they don't right swipe a lot - it usually means they like the person enough to talk to them. Doesn't it make sense to actually hold a conversation, or arrange for a meet up in a safe public place soon? Why bother if you are only going to give lackluster replies?

That being said, do you feel it's okay to match the energy of the texter, and let the conversation fizzle out, or unmatch if you are not feeling the vibe?

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